This article lists behaviors and issues that can harm a relationship and lead to its demise. They include neediness, insecurity, lack of relationship knowledge, lack of self-control, money, controlling behavior, arguments, difference in life goals, difference in core values, being at different points in life and substance abuse. The article suggests that by being aware of these potential relationship killers, and understanding how they may have contributed to your relationship ending, you can make a conscious effort to address and overcome them in future relationships.
Autonomy
- When a romantic relationship ends, it is natural for both parties to feel a range of emotions, including sadness, disappointment, and grief. This article explores why the person who was dumped may feel confusion and hurt by the sudden shift in emotions from their ex, who seems to have moved on to anger and resentment. The article also explains why begging and pleading can push the ex further away, and suggests ways for finding the roots of the ex's anger and how to make things right with them. It also points out that it is important to remember that anger is a natural and temporary emotion that will eventually dissipate over time.